Baby Gear

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

katemanning3 — Thu, 07 Oct 2010 21:58:20 GMT

I was an early shopper! Just stay neutral, stick to larger sizes and some things ill do different with my next child based off of discoveries with my son are: buy only 100% cotton clothing and blankets (allergic to polyester), organic/hypoallergenic washes and lotions (allergic to all others), size 2 and above diapers instead of nb/1s (he only used one pk of each plus you get those sizes at the baby shower always) and lastly, I planned to breastfeed my son so I only bought 2 cans of formula for emergency feeding and bought just the regular formula, well my son is allergic to milk protein and this caused very bad issues, my next child I plan to breastfeed as well but will buy hypoallergenic as my back up formula just incase of the same allergy and if I findout he/she is fine with my milk and isn't allgeric to protein then I will switch to regular for emergencies after finding out. My son is now on formula only because while we were trying to figure out what was going on with him I started having trouble with supply issues because he wasn't eating from me. Well, I had dairy in my system and it was hurting his stomach. I couldn't even have a bite of cheese and try to breastfeed with in the next 2 days so after all of that I finally dried out. So next time, I will start with hypo and a regular diet and if my diet affects the next baby then I will have formula to substitute while I'm adusting my diet. Ofcourse id run any formulas by the doctor first aswell. I didn't do that before, I didn't know it was a big deal. I didn't pick a pedi until I delivered and had I done so before, I would have probably not gone thru all the issues I had. Because, I would have told the doctor about ALL the allergies I have and I'm sure they would have told me what he would probably have and I could have prepared properly. But now I know for next time to just prepare for an allergy baby and if the baby isn't allergic to anything then great but at least id be ready if he/she is and cotton, hypo,organic won't hurt a nonallergic babies so either way, its not a waste of money. I've had to give away blankets, clothes, toys, washes and lotions because I shopped without allergies in mind to start with.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

ambriabaez — Thu, 07 Oct 2010 17:36:18 GMT

NO!!!! Ddont wait the sooner you start the easier it will be for suprise things you may need to buy when the baby born. you dont know your finances later either, save the receipt just incase things change and only buy few newborn things because if your baby comes out 8lbs or more thats considered 0-3 month clothes they grow fast and dont wear that many clothes when newborn so shop for future 0-3 and 3-6 months keep tags and receipts for exchanges and returns

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

BriellesDaddy — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 04:55:59 GMT

It's never too late to get the shopping done. I am a first time Dad and I am glad I got the bulk of the shopping done. I stayed away from the bigger items till the baby shower was over, then I picked up the rest. Oh! thats another thing, have the shower early, incase you go into labor early or they have to induce labor. I was setup and ready for my little girl to come home. That let me settle into things and enjoy getting up every three hours to feed and change her. It takes a lot of stress off if you have most of the things you need ahead of time.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

LanSvet — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 20:11:39 GMT

It is never too early! I started buying major stuff like stroller, car seat and crib as soon as i found out that i was pregnant.I am really picky (sadly) and i went through so much gear until i found what i liked. Plus major Tip: Never rely on babyshowers, 30 % out of 100 will buy off the register the rest will buy stuff you dont need, and you will be lucky to get a receipt for exchange or return of unwanted items! I had three babyshowers and after I had bags of clothes i couldn't use (people think a cute fur pink coat will look cute, but its to wear in summer :)) and stuff off of my baby register i had to buy out of pocket.So i say, you see something you like buy it, keep receipts you can always return! Hope this helps :)

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

saiiru — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 20:05:07 GMT

In my opinion its too early, or if you do buy things, just buy gender neutral items that way if your baby gives you a little surprise you wont be stuck with something your baby just cant use...good luck!!!

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

anxiouslywaiting — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 02:11:03 GMT

Well I cracked, bought my 1st few things today but I just couldn't resist. They we're only pjs and onesies though.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

anxiouslywaiting — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 15:14:02 GMT

I'm 21 weeks and am also seeing great deals but prior losses is the only thing stopping me since I'm a shopaholic. I agree, return policy is key, and also ask outside of the return policy in event of a loss. I'm seeing a great breast pump I want and other things and once I find out the sex on Friday if it's a girl I will definitely want to shop but I will hold out till at least 7 months, praying all goes well. Best of luck

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

wonderwoman26 — Sun, 23 May 2010 17:04:12 GMT

Conrats! With my first son I waited till I was in my second trimester only because there was a history of miscarage in my family, and after something like that who wants to go return stuff then? That would suck for anyone. My son was fine BTW! Otherwise finding great deals on the bigger stuff, go for it. Cause most people don't go for the bigger items for a baby shower, so I think it's best to get them yourself. It's also a reflection of your style then. CHECK EACH PLACES RETURN POLICY!!! Buying stuff to early on a great find is one thing, it's another to relize months later (after the baby is born) that it doesn't work or is a piece of crap. I buy the warrenties or protection plans on certain items (ie Baby monitor) really expensive things, so that if they arn't what I expected or doesn't work I can take it back no quesetions no matter how long it's been.

But yeah leave stuff for other people, for little naked squish balls babies don't come into this world with a thing, but they sure need alot of stuff! So there will still be plenty to buy! All that little stuff adds up quick! Gift receipts are ideal from people (don't be afraid to ask them to indlude it) I got so much stuff when my son was born he didn't wear alot of it before he grew out of it. So tag still on clothes ( don't pull them off right away and wash everything for this reason) and or reciept in hand I returned it for cash/store credit and used it for other things for him. People won't be mad, it's something that happens. Gift cards are also cool, because you may have everything you need but you'll always need dipars and wipes! Those cards are great through out the year then!

When registering for clothes though wait till like two weeks before or a month because when the seasons change so do the baby clothes. So what you like now won't be there in four months. IF you really like something get it now, otherwise I find restraint hard but worth it.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

mzharo — Sun, 04 Apr 2010 06:14:19 GMT

Part of making pregnancy fun is shopping. I started shopping for my baby as soon as i found out i was pregnant. I say go for it. I have read that its best to purchase all the furniture items early since they either need to be delivered and/or assembled. All smaller items you can take your time and decided what will be best for you and your baby =)

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

kyliebear92 — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 05:07:23 GMT

Oh I'm in the same situation...I'm also 16 weeks pregnant and wanting to buy everything when i see something cute.

This is something to keep in mind. I was talking to my OB and i had mentioned i found a really good car seat and it was on sale and she informed me that at most hospitals they will give you a car seat for free and show you how to put it into your car. Ask you OB what kind of things they offer at the hospital becuase i jsut saved my self $150!

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

golson646 — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 22:18:28 GMT

I think you should take advantage of the deals. I have started buying the big items I didn't think people would be interested in buying for showers. But as my parents keep reminding. Don't buy everything. People may give you things at showers.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

MommyRN4 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 19:28:23 GMT

If you are finding some great deals, then go ahead and buy! But Answer Dad is right, make sure you know their return policy in case you change your mind or someone buys you something similar. Congrats!

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

kristen1625 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 17:13:48 GMT

Don't pass up great deals! With my first, I was scared to death to buy things because we had a few losses before him. I waited until I was 8 months along to buy everything and it was EXPENSIVE to do it all at once. With my current pregnancy, I started buying as soon as I found out the gender. My only advice is don't start actually setting up your nursery for a couple of months.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

LainieJo — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:53:50 GMT

You know you will need the stuff anyway go for it. Don't do what I did and wait until the last minute.

Re: Is it to soon to shop?

AnswerDad01 — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 03:28:45 GMT

Always find out the return policies and check out The Baby Bargain Book to make sure you are getting the highest quality items at the best prices. Other than that, get shopping!